Saturday, September 12, 2009

affection.

You know what's the worst? When you order an egg and bacon mcmuffin when really you wanted to order an egg and sausage mcmuffin. Epic faaaaaaiiil.

I know a lot of people who have mainly physical relationships. Hmm. I guess that's what you're exposed to when you grow up hey? Its surprising to me how many people can do the whole no strings attached thing, cause honestly there are always strings. ALWAYS. They're just hidden.

Even though physical relationships do bring 'sexy times!!!!!', its nice just to have someone there.. Like to cuddle with. Yaaaay for cuddling. Affection.. There we go. It is affection I think that's harder to go without than 'sexy timesss!!!!' You know babies when they're first born crave affection? That bond that they are exposed to by touching and cuddling affects their psychosocial development. Mmhmm! So the more they are exposed = the healthier their development.

But as I was saying, we've just been so exposed to the other types of relationships that we assume and judge things based on the most scandalous situations we can think of. But hey.. Makes for great gossip right?

Hmm. I guess I just wanted to say that it is possible to have a relationship with someone that doesn't involve any physicalities (lol yaa is that a real word?). Annd its just. Affection. Its really nice to have. Like holding hands and hugging. (Although there is perception that holding hands is a sign of insecurity.. Thoughts?!) Affection is. Really. nice. And .. Ya. lol Mmmmm.. It's one of those things that you never want to end.

- j

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